You first feel the need to change. Things are not right, but you may not be sure what is wrong. Eventually, you can list the problems with your status quo, but you may not know what to do.
At some point, you just have to start your change.
Trust yourself to know what to do. Don’t be afraid to take baby steps. After all, one leaf turns first on every tree in the fall.
At some point, your change will reach that point where others notice, just like the forest in the fall. Keep making those changes, and you will get where you want.